I hate griping about this but it's the only way I'm going to get it off of my chest!
For the past 15 years we've been doing a $50 grab bag in my family, includes parents and all adults...about 9 of us. All children get a gift from adults. I dont' know how it happens but about 75% of the time bil's wife usually draws my name. She's super nice and a good mama but not a good gift giver. We're all told to send our wish/idea lists to the gift giver. I send her my list each time. Each time she has drawn me she has ignored my wish/idea list. Over the years she has given me the following:
1. Mary Kay hand lotion
2. Lands End slippers
3. Mary Kay relaxation lotion
4. Bath & Body antibacterial lotion
5. Potpourri basket
6. scented candles
7. sweater with a hole in it
8. 2 turtle necks not my size
I usually give ideas like: specific types of books and authors, music cds, dvd sets, colognes, exercise stuff.
I also list my favorite stores. We don't live in the same state and she always buys me stuff from stores that are NOT in my area. Once I just had to return an item to her to exchange. She said there were no other items like it so she sent me a check...the only year I actually got the total $50.
It doesn't happen with anyone else in the family including her husband my bil. That was long. Thanks for listening. BTW, this year she drew my name and guess what I got...?! NOTHING! x( She forgot. I haven't said a word.