No kidding! ITA. I wouldn't even give it a second thought to say sorry and wave on the way out of the driveway. You give up a vacation to save someone from pooping their pants? Not in a heartbeat.
I'd tell the kid to make believe he was camping and then he could poop in our yard. I think just offering the yard is nice, isn't it?
Lisa
Mom to Gator July 2003
And Cha-Cha July 2005
and surprise! twins due 11/07!