I guess I just need to vent about this. We found a nanny to take care of our 4 year old and 2 year old. And she's great. She's got 2 older kids of her own, a 20 year old and 17 year old. So she is pretty understanding and has lots of BTDT experience. The boys love her and she's donea a nice job so far. The whole purpose of having her is so that I can rest when I need to. Usually I try to get stuff done in the morning and rest in the afternoon. But lately I"m finding I need to rest in the morning too.
So, I find myself wide awake but physically exhausted. That usually puts me in my bed with my laptop and other projects spread out all over. Here's my issue, I feel like a pampered princess and I'm not comfortable with that. The nanny comes in occasionally to ask questions or the boys come in and want to talk and there I am, laying there on my pile of pillows looking pampered and spoiled. I'd lounge on the sofa but I don't want to get in the nanny's way.
So, I'm uncomfortable about her judging me. Isn't that stupid? I know we are well off and I"m very lucky. And my husband spoils me with any material thing I want (I think he feels guilty about being gone working on his many projects so much). But frankly, I'm uncomfortable with potentially being judged this way. I grew up in a blue-collar working family and have worked all my life. I feel best when I'm busy and accomplishing something. This just isn't me.
The nanny has only been supportive and encourages me to rest pretty often. So this is probably all in my head. And it probably stems from my personal insecurities. I just can't help it. And it's a very uncomfortable feeling. God, I wish my mom were here. And I can't wait for these babies to be born already!!!!
Lisa
Mom to Gator July 2003
And Cha-Cha July 2005
and surprise! twins due 11/07!