Ok, I think I've stated here recently how big and obviously pregnant and uncomfortable I am at 30 weeks with my twins. Well, there is a group of people that all live in the same 2 neighborhoods that we are friends with. Once a month at the full moon, we all get together and have what's called a full-moon party. People who come usually make a dish to pass and there is no obligation to come. It's just whoever is in town or doesn't have other plans. But it's a nice way to see people regularly and just keep up with each other.
Well, most of these parties take place on the lake that we all live either near or on. People will drive their pontoon boats to the middle of the lake and tie them together and go from boat to boat visiting. And since I"m so big and pregnant the boats rocking drives me nuts, AND there is no place to pee out there, for the past few months we haven't been going. It's just too uncomfortable out there.
Well, the leader of the group this year is someone I ABHOR. She's basically a 45 year old bully. She sent out an email to everyone saying that for the people who didn't come she was going to toilet paper (tp) their house. This is what she has done to people who wanted to leave early from the last few parties. She threatened that if they left, she'd tp their houses and she did. Well, this time I called and told her that I'm not sure we were going to make it but that we were going to try. But I said if we didn't make it, and she tp'd our house, I"d call the cops. I explained that I'm in no shape to be out cleaning up toilet paper but that we shouldn't be blamed if we didn't make it because it was so uncomfortable for me to be out there. She said, "oh hell, I was never that uncomfortable when I was pregnant. You can make it." To which I replied, "well, you never carried twins." She goes, "nah, that's just a few pounds extra. You can make it."
Well, we did go for a little while tonight but we came home and found the house had been tp's while we were out. DH and I got into a huge argument about it. I wanted to call the cops right then and let them know who did it. He said not to. He fought me hard about it. Unfortunately, the evil lady was at the party the whole time we were there, so she didn't do it. But she had to have put someone up to it. My husband suggested we retaliate. I don't want to retaliate- then she'll get into a back and forth war. That's what she wants- she wants us to try to get her back. So she can try to get us back. I want to call the cops, show them the email, and let her know I wasn't kidding and be done with it. My husband says if I really want to make her mad I should just let it go. He promises to go clean it up in the morning with Gator. I want someone to drag her ass over to our house and make HER clean it up.
Normally, I'd ignore this woman and never speak to her again. HOwever, her daughter, Rachel, is our Friday-night-out babysitter. Her daughter is very sweet and reliable. About a month ago, Rachel was babysitting for us when a severe thunderstorm came through with hail, lightening- the whole bit. We called and told her to take the boys to the basement and we were on the way home. When we got there the boys were safe with her in our basement but she told us her mother had called her (this is the evil bully lady) and told her that she should just come home since our boys were upstairs fast asleep. WHAT THE F***??!! What kind of person would leave a 2 and 4 year old alone in a house when it's thunderstorming?
So, if you've gotten this far, what would you do about the toilet paper situation? It needs to be cleaned up before tomorrow afternoon because it's going to rain. Do I call the cops in the morning? Do I let it go and just have DH and Gator clean it up? Do I send a blanket email to everyone in the group letting them know what she did tonight as well as what she suggested the night of the thunderstorm? What would YOU do?
Lisa
Mom to Gator July 2003
And Cha-Cha July 2005
and surprise! twins due 11/07!