RE: bedrest and intimacy
I agree with everything Kathy said, and would add the kind of sustained kissing people tend to do early in relationships, before that kind of thing gets to be only a precursor to sex. Physical closeness, cuddling, kissing, etc. can go a long way to reminding you that you have a romantic and sexual relationship, even if orgasms are off-limits. Also, just be sure you and your partner are talking about this openly and spending time remembering what attracts you to each other. If physical intimacy has to be restricted for the time being, it's especially important to make sure that relational intimacy is in good shape.
As Kathy said, hang in there! Let your partner take good care of you while you're busy taking such good care of your growing babies.
-Rachel
Rachel
Mama to Abby (5) and Ethan (2)
When you know better, you do better.
-Maya Angelou