RE: what to take to the hospital
I had a C section (not planned) and here's what I thought was essential:
1) your own pillows - I don't know where they get those hospital pillows but they are AWFUL
2) if breastfeeding, a breastfeeding pillow - I had the My Brest Friend and loved it
3) a video camera - since you're on the table, you probably won't be able to see all the stuff going on (weighing, cleaning, etc.). My DH video'd all that for me so I didn't "miss it".
4) GOOD DRUGS - make sure they give you GOOD pain medication and make sure to take it!
5) Shampoo, a hair dryer and make-up - all the better to feel human again
6) Phone numbers and a calling card - no cell phones in most hospitals
Everything else is personal preference. I liked the mesh undies (no mess for me to clean) and just used the hospital gown to nurse in. Definitely get up and move as soon as you can.
HTH,
Beth, mom to older DD (8/01) and younger DD (10/06) and always missing Leah (4/22 - 5/1/05)