I hope I don't offend anyone with this post but I am really unsure of what to do. I am a very open and accepting person when it comes to religion, race, etc. DH even calls me Mrs. Social Worker because I try so hard to accept/love all groups. But this one has me baffled.
The city where we live is predominantly (or seems to be) one major religion that has chosen to trick-or-treat this year on Saturday. The rest of the families will go on Sunday like scheduled. A majority of my specific neighborhood/street is of this faith and will be trick-or-treating on Saturday.
My questions are : Do we offer candy on Saturday AND Sunday? Do we still let Julia TOT on Sunday- how will we know who isn't passing out candy? I don't want to offend my neighbors but I also don't want them to decide for us when we will TOT or celebrate Halloween.
To be completely honest (and I almost erased this part because I DO NOT want to offend), but I am a little frustrated that a single group can change the way a entire community celebrates. If you choose not to TOT on Sunday or do something with your church on Saturday, that's great! I totally accpet that. BUT I don't want to feel pressure to change my own views. I just don't see anything wrong with trick-or-treating on a Sunday.
Any suggestions? TIA~
Daniella
Mom to Julia 6-13-02
And another little girl EDD 12-30-04!!