RE: "Thoughts on low iron and "toddler" formulas" X-post with Feeding
Citrus and tomato sauce (and other acidic foods) help w/ the absorption of iron, so when you do get something containing iron into her, try to combine it something like tomato sauce or citrus.
I mentioned it in my other post, but cooking in cast iron leeches the iron into the food.
How about mixing stuff (supplements or just the foods themselves) into a smoothie? My DS isn't big on smoothies but I am and I sneak things into my own smoothies ;) You can do them dairy-free (use OJ or just water to blend with frozen berries, etc.) to make the iron easier to absorb. You can even throw in a little bit of spinach or other greens...the taste gets masked pretty well.
Would she eat a home made veggie burger? We make those around here sometimes...you could grind up beans and quinoa to make it higher in iron (if she'll eat it).
IMO iron supplements aren't all that bioavailable so the more you can get into her through real food, the better.
Was she sick recently? That can lower the numbers. Also, L. came out a little low on his test once and after reading about it, I realized the nurse squeezed the blood out of his finger. In reality, the test is more accurate if they prick their finger, and get a nice bead of blood without having to squeeze it out. Squeezing it forces more serum out (the clear component of your blood) which makes the numbers come back lower because it appears more dilute due to the serum concentration. He had also been getting over a cold fairly recently before that.
Went back for the recheck, different nurse, no need to squeeze the blood out of his finger and it came back at an acceptable level, although lower end of normal. However, unlike Susanna, he doesn't appear anemic or have any clinical signs.
I wish you much luck. It is tough. My DS has never been a big solids eater (has picked up in recent months) and when we were going through this he was barely eating solids at all...it was hard to get any food into him, let alone iron-rich foods.
I hope things improve soon for Susanna.
Mama to DS-2004
DD-2006
and a new addition-ds born march 2010