RE: Should I move?
We live directly across the street from DH's sister, her DH and their two kiddos. We LOVE it! It comes in so handy for several reasons.
1) Instant babysitter for emergencies (like when I have to go to work, but DH is stuck in traffic unexpectedly)
2) If you run out of something when you're cooking, you can share. They always borrow eggs from us and we've been known to get salsa and milk. :)
3) We keep an eye on each other's things. We've both left our garage doors open and we just run across the street and close it for each other in that case. Also, if one family is out of town, the other takes care of their animals so no one has to shell out $$ for a kennel.
4) We frequently invite each other over when we've rented a movie or when we try out new recipies that make more food than we expected.
5) The DHs share tools. SIL's DH has a lot of woodworking tools that DH likes to borrow, and they borrow all kinds of things from us like levels, drill bits, etc. We have a nice lawnmower and they have space in their shed, so we share that too. (Our garage is waaaay full!)
6) It's nice for people who are shy, like me, to already know their neighbors.
Good luck on your decision!
Erica, mama to Lucas Owen 1/11/05, Finn William 2/22/08 and Ethan James 2/10/10