Parents of boys: have you been using the "deflector shield" in the potty. The first time DS used his potty, the pee flew across the room. But at the same time, I can't see how he could comfortably sit on his potty with that big plastic thing sticking up. My Mom said she used to tell my brother to just point his penis down with his hand. That's tough, because I keep telling DS to keep his hands out of there while he's on the potty. Ideas?