RE: How do I get ds to poop on the pot?
My good friend was having an issue like this with her DD. He solution was to use a reward system for pooping on the potty (or bribery might be a more accurate name LOL!). She had what she called, The Poop Bag. Seriously.
Inside The Poop Bag were small toys, trinkets, stickers, stamps, small candies, etc. Things like you get at the dollar store. Every time her DD went poop on the potty, she got to pick a toy from The Poop Bag. If she went a whole day with all her poop in the potty, she got to pick a more special toy. If she went a whole week, then she got a VERY special toy. After about 2 weeks of this, her DD was pooping in the potty consistently.
I have read about other folks doing this with other things too. I think the key is to find something that is a real motivator for your DS and use that as a reward. The trick is it has to be something that he ONLY gets if he poops on the potty and you have to stick with it for awhile.
HTH,
Beth, mom to older DD (8/01) and younger DD (10/06) and always missing Leah (4/22 - 5/1/05)