My DS was invited to a joint birthday party for 3 children in his class at a bounce place. We have done our parties at home for the last 2 years and will likely have his 3rd birthday party at home as well. Our philiosphy -- when he is old enough to ask for a particular type of party, we will start doing something different! :) Since we have them at home we really only invite close friends and family -- not daycare friends.

We are planning on attending but my question relates to the gifts -- how much should I spend on each child? I would normally spend $15-20 for a gift, but that would quickly add up in this case. Would it be ok to spend less in this situation? A book for each child or small toy? We are really trying to watch our expenses right now.

Thanks for your help!