RE: kindergarten readiness
Just from conversations with K teachers in the lounge when I was teaching, what they really want their students to be able to do:
put a jacket on
tie shoes or wear velcro
sit in circle time long enough to listen to a story
use the restroom without needing help
write their first name/recognize first name
recognize at least half of the letters
As far as curriculum, your school district might have a website with curriculum info or you could call them and see if they can send you a copy. I think it could be reassuring to see what they will be learning throughout the year.
Lisa
Emma 11/02
Adam 2/07
Their hands may be small but their feelings are just as big as ours.