when having a home built i live in NY and want to start to have my home built in Fla i cannot be there all the time because i still work full time. what would be the most crucial time to be there?? when the frame work is being done??? or another time?? i know from the book it's not a good idea to be a long distance buyer but i don't have too much of a choice in the matter. 2stepgal ps sure wish we would see some more activity on this board. the book is so wonderful !!!!