Nate pretty much only cries when his diaper's changed too. The nurses told us that preemies just don't like the diaper change b/c their butts get cold. His bum is red as well, but I use A&D and it seems to work well. We also got a wipes warmer and that helped a bit!

Glad he's home -- if you thought the hosp. stuff was hard, the first few days throw you for a loop!

Caroline