RE: Help on cradle/nursing position
One thing for sure, it's much easier to use the cradle position with an "open tail" ring sling such as a Zolo or Maya, than it is to use a sewn closed tail sling such as an Over The Shoulder Baby Holder. You can independently adjust the rails on an open tailed sling, to lift the baby's head up where you want it (like near your breast for nursing). But with a closed tail sling, when you pull the tail, the whole sling gets shorter. That makes it more difficult to get a great fit. I think this goes for a pouch sling probably too--although not sure. DS is so big I have never been able to put him in the cradle position since I bought a pouch sling.
Mama to "The Fantastic Four":
DS 02
DD 06
DS 09
DD 12