RE: What kind of pouch sling do you have? Does anyone have one from tentoes.com???
Well, all my pouch slings I made from this pattern:
http://www.ida.net/users/stace/sling.html
Maybe you could get your neighbor that sews to make one for you in the fabric you choose? If she can sew at all, it will barely take an hour. In fact, you could have her make 2 in different fabrics and that would solve your fabric problem! You could have a fleece one for winter, and a lighterweight fabric for summer! Even paying her for her time would be less expensive than buying and returning several slings to find one you like.
HTH,
Beth, mom to older DD (8/01) and younger DD (10/06) and always missing Leah (4/22 - 5/1/05)