RE: Will I be lost??!! Please help a shorty!
Sounds like you might want to try a pouch (like the Peanut Shell or a Hotsling) and see if you like it...definitely the least amount of material. A ring sling will be more material b/c of the design, but you can get one with a short tail if you don't want to be overwhelmed with the fabric. Depending on your price range www.zolowear.com is very popular, or for more of a budget check out www.sleepingbaby.net. Good luck!
BTW, I'm also petite, 5'1" (though haven't lost all the preggy weight yet) and I have tried/worn almost every kind of carrier...so yes, you can do it, just depends on what you like and find comfortable!
Nancy, mom to
DD1 5/04 and DD2 3/07