RE: Question for work-outside-of-home moms
We don't use day care, but I do work. DH and I share a diaper bag, and when I go out with Colin, I just carry my purse separately. It's been easier to do that, and then things don't get left in the diaper bag accidentally (or I don't have to carry a huge, half-empty tote to work). But that's just what works for us.
Honestly, I wouldn't worry about it too much until your baby is here. You'll figure out your needs and likes/dislikes, and be able to find a bag that works for you!
Single mom to
DS ("twice exceptional") - September 2002
DS - February 2006
DD - July 2009
DD - July 2009