I am sure I'll have more to add, but here's what comes to mind right now:
-FP Ocean Wonders Aquarium Swing...a LIFE SAVER for us early on!!! We had many nights with DS crying endlessly! This was the only thing that seemed to soothe him & allow us to get some rest! (He still likes it!)
-FP Deluxe Take Along Swing...LOVE this!! Have it in our bedroom. DS STILL loves to sit and/or swing in this. Uses it while I take a shower.
-Baby Einstein DVDs
-Ocean Wonders Aquarium that fits on the crib rail...DS has loved this since the first time we used it with him! It helps him relax & lulls him to sleep!
-Carters Sleepers...made so much nicer than other brands we've tried!
-Pampers Swaddlers & Cruisers....we tried them all, these are our favorite!!
-FP Sounds & Lights Monitor...works great in our house!
-Babytrend Snap & Go...so easy to use & convenient when DS was a newborn!!!!!!!!!!
-Peg Perego P3...LOVE this stroller!!!
-Bibsters
-Especially for Baby brand bottle sterilizer...I am a germ freak & this one is much cheaper than the Avent & works GREAT!!
-JLChildress Maxicool bottle bag...fits in my diaper bag perfect & holds 3 Avent bottles!
-JLchildress StrollerCool...use it on my the side of my P3 to store DS toys...works GREAT!
I know there's more...but need to go to playgroup :-)
Oh my gosh...have to add (even though it's not exactly gear or gadgets):
-Aveeno Baby Bath products & lotions (ESPECIALLY the "Calming Comfort" lavender & vanilla - smells AWESOME!)....Aveeno is the BEST! My DS had a lot of problems with dry skin & rashes, started using these products, & now his skin is perfect!
-Also, not really a baby product, BUT...we purchased an inexpensive CD player for DS nursery. We play classical CDs in there every night at bedtime. Very soothing!!
-Again, not TRULY a baby product..purchased "Util-a-Mat" at Sams Club...bright colored, interlocking, soft rubbery square pads. They are perfect for DS to play on & they protect the carpet!!
Ooh, sorry so long...I got carried away :P