OK here are the pics I promised. If you have any questions, ask away and I will try my best to answer them.
BTW, here is what I have in the bag (it does not have a black hole effect, b/c it is lined in silver, so it's not all dark)...
Back main compartment...
-Extra outfit
-hotsling pouch
-ziplock bag for dirties
-2 bibs
-burp cloth
-I forgot to put in a recieving blanket, but even with that I would have had tons of room left
Front main pocket...
-wipes
-2 disposable changing pads
-3 disposable dipes
This is the pocket that has the potential to unzip to become even bigger. I forgot to take a pic, but it is kind of difficult to show anyway.
Messenger flap has my wallet, I usually carry a water bottle for myself, which would be in the bottle holder on the side and obviously my cell phone is in the cell phone compartment.
In various front pockets under messenger pocket...
-roll of plastic bags for dirty dipes (comes in a keychain dispenser)
-keys on the key fob
-anitbac gel
-maxi pad
-pen
-pk of tissues
-chapstick
There is potential for a lot more other small things, I'm not really utilizing all the pockets.