Hello everyone. My name is Paige and I am considering adoption. My husband and I would like to have a daughter (we have 2 amazing boys, 5 years and 18 months). We both don't feel like our family is complete yet.
I have a few questions. Please pardon my rambling, but this is all just so new and overwhelming.
1. Where do I start? Are there good websites to provide background/basics on dealing with adoption? An overview basically. I am assuming we will have to do international adoption but maybe not (??). I want to research all the variables before pursuing adoption. Does anyone have any input on countries that allow adoption?
2. Are we able to choose the gender? Will we be looked down upon for wanting a girl?
3. Is the 20 months/$20,000 rule of thumb true?
Am I overlooking anything? Thank you in advance for any advice you can offer.
~Paige