RE: 2-week old baby refuses to sleep at night and demands food frequently
I'm not sure why everyone would suggest that it is "bad" to have baby fall asleep in your arms. Your baby is only 9 months old. There is no way you could ever spoil a baby that young or. Babies need to be held, loved, and comforted. Baby spent nine beautiful months lolling around in your warm secure tummy. She went through quite a lot in the birth process and is probably still in shock by her surroundings. Maybe instead you could try an Arm's Reach or Sunggle Nest to have her close by and feeling more secure. I don't have any advice on formula feeding but I know my DS did the same thing at that age. Newborns have very tiny stomachs and therefore need to eat very frequently. DS would eat a little, poop, and then a couple minutes later want to eat again. I fed him round the clock, but it really eases up after a few weeks. Hang in there :)
DS 10, 5th grade
DD 8, 3rd grade