RE: Thank you
Well, it could just be that she wants to be near you. :-) She spent 9 months with you and has only been out for 2.5 weeks. I spent alot of time with DS1 sleeping on my chest the first few weeks. I think they just have a hard time separating after being so close. If you are worried, you are not going to sleep well, so I would keep working on getting her to sleep on her back. If she can do it for naps, it might just be the time of day or some other subtle cues she is picking up.
Keep trying the swaddling occasionally, she may grow to like it. A bouncy seat can also be used instead of the carseat, that may be more comfortable. How about a swing? If you have a cradle swing, that might help. Have you read/watched The Happiest Baby on the Block? That seems to really work for alot of people.
Mama to three boys ('03, '05, '07)