RE: My 45 minute napper...
E has never been a good napper. At daycare we consider anything over an hour to be good; at home we're lucky if he sleeps for 30 minutes (although every few weeks he gets a good 2+ hours in, much to our surprise.) We've just accepted it, and usually don't try to force longer naps.
If she's sleeping well at night, and seems active and happy during the day, she's probably getting enough sleep. Which I know is no consolation to you for getting anything done. :) If she's taking multiple naps a day, things might get better when she consolidates her naps down to one or 2.
Jen, mom to
Elliot (8/2/05) and
Lexi (5/19/07)
"Life is what happens to you while you're busy making other plans." --John Lennon