I've been searching these boards about early intervention and speech therapy for children. DS is 19 months now and babbles a ton...telling us stories that we just don't understand. Of course amongst his babbles I know what he means for things he wants like his milk etc. He knows how to say mama, dada, baba, and all those sounds and what not. He says choo-choo for his trains. However, he won't call me mama or daddy dada on purpose. Sometimes we'll tell him say dada or mama...or whatever we want him to say...but he will refuse to say it. You can see it in him that he's being stubborn about it.
Now my friend who is a speech therapist spent some time with us while travelling through town. I did ask her if she thought DS was delayed because we wondered why he wasn't talking as much as some other kids. Of course we don't want to compare kids but you know how it is...you start thinking somethings wrong or what not. Well my friend told me that Ds is a really smart kid and is slightly delayed in his speech. She told me to sing with him (which we don't do much of) and talk to him a lot (which we do of course). She mentioned early intervention but then she also mentioned how she knows a lot of kid that just don't talk then one day are speaking full sentences. She just gave me some tips and what not and told me not freak out too much...I was glad she was honest with me but then I just started to try to sing with him and talk to him more.
Now here's the kicker. I think my boy is just STUBBORN. I say this because I had my aunt visiting this past week, and I swear DS would mimic things we say or things he hears on TV, like "Ahhh-choo", "bless you", "blues clues", "yeti yeti yeti" and "tootles" etc. But when you (more like myself or DH) asks him to say it he refuses. One day DH brought home a new car for DS and he told DS you can have it if you say dada...i swear the two of them were at it for like 20 minutes...until DS broke down and cried hysterically then DH just gave him the car. I just have this feeling he's just being stubborn. If that's the case fine I know he'll talk when he's ready...but i also fear he'll be one of those kids that never talk but cry and scream to get what they want instead (having a nephew who didn't speak until 3 because he got what he wanted other ways).
So not that I'm freaked about a speech delay...slighty concerned but I know he can do it. I also want to give him a chance to get there on his own...he was a slow crawler and walker but once he learned those things he was GREAT and fast at it. Was wondering what other parents have experienced with their children outside of speech therapy and those things. Just curious how things happened for other.
Sorry so lengthy but thank you for reading. :)