RE: Aggressive toddler behavior...who has been there???
Read the thread about biting! :-)
Elijah isn't much of a bully, but he did go through a biting phase and is just coming off of a horrible screaming phase ("I want to look at the trucks RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!" in the middle of a store, etc.). It is all perfectly normal toddler behavior, but still so mortifying to parents. It sounds like you are doing exactly the right thing. Any parent who saw how YOU reacted would know that you are not an awful parent. An awful parent is the one who sees her child being a bully and does nothing at all.
There is a reason they call them the terrible twos! You are being consistent, so this too (two!) shall pass.
Hallie
DS #1 5/02
DS #2 1/05
DD 8/09