My 3 yo DS has decided he will not eat dinner. He eats lunch, he eats breakfast, but not dinner. About 5 months ago, we started focusing on eating as a family, with baby in her exersaucer. DS gets a separate meal--usually spaghettios and carrots or pbj or chicken noodles--on a kid plate. We give him a 5 minute warning about dinner time and my husband brings him to the table. He used to fuss about being there but then would eat. Now he doesn't fuss but he is distracted and won't eat. (We give toddler size portions so as not to overwhelm him) We explain that if he doesn't eat dinner, he can't have dessert and he can't have anything at bed time. (He does still take a bottle at bedtime and yes, I could write another post about that, but given all the other quirks I see in kids his age, I can handle a bottle at bed time) We stick to this rule. He gets upset when he doesn't get to eat something at bedtime, but he gets over it quickly. The next morning he will ask "Did I eat my dinner?" and I explain that he did not, but that he can have breakfast now. He will be begging for food while watching a predinner video with Dad and then want food after dinner, but not at the table. What gives? Can we do anything to change this? I do not want to make food a big issue. My brother practically threatens his kids to get them to eat and I am waiting for my nieces to have eating disorders! Not worth it to me. I realize that they grow out of things, but I just do not get the motivation to starve yourself! (his weight is ok or I would be panicky) Any thoughts/ideas?