RE: Having a hard time with this whole
really, just let her tell you! don't worry too much! all of her nutrition is still coming from her bottle right now, so you can't get it wrong with solids. i prefer to nurse before solids, to be sure he is getting his fill of milk before going to the "practice" food. but many others prefer to do solids first.
if she only wants 5 or 6 spoonfuls of veggies, i would just stop there for now. when she looks interested in more and is annoyed that you have stopped offering her spoonfuls, then you can offer a little more. schuyler didn't get three solids meals until 10 months. he started getting two meals around 9 months. and he didn't even sucessfully start solids until 8 months.
definitely don't worry about not giving her enough solids at this point. since the bottle is her first priority, you can just let her decide how much she wants to eat (solids). you can probably stick with just two meals for a while.
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