RE: My DH wants me to wean
One way to approach changing his mind could be to point out that 12 months is a pretty arbitrary qualifier on which to base weaning. Babies all develop differently - when they crawl, when they walk, when they get teeth. It's not like we say "OK, he's 12 months now, he better walk. Let's start a regimen to get him walking!" Maybe that will make him see that it is unfair to you and Logan to force the weaning issue when neither of you are ready. Obviously though, it is important that you both be happy with how your son is raised, so maybe you could push for a compromise somewhere between his 12 mos. and whatever age you had in mind. Good luck to you!
Deb
Mama to my guys, K (May '03) and Q (June '07)