RE: breastfeeding and sleeping schedule
Congratulations on the new baby. And on making it through the first month of breastfeeding! She'll get more incredible every day.
Regarding a schedule, I'd like to say we had one, but our son controlled our schedule in the early months. Particularly when he'd get into jigs and want to eat every hour. However, we did start early on trying to establish a nighttime routine that we would be able to stick with on a reasonable basis. During the day, we tried to keep his naps to reasonable times (under 2 hours typically) to distinguish night from day. Somewhere around 7:30pm we'd begin putting him down for the night. We'd change him, put him into his sleeper, turn off the lights, close the curtain, nurse, and then put him down. On bath nights, he'd get his bath before the rest of the stuff.
He started sleeping through the night at 2.5 months (just before I went back to work!). Before then, I'd generally nurse him again before I went to sleep (around 10:30 or 11), and generally get up 1 or 2 times a night to nurse as well, keeping everything as low key and dark as we could. Some things that seemed to help him sleep were: clean, comfortable diaper (we use Huggies Supreme), warm sleep attire (either cotton sleeper with a cotton sleepsack, or a long sleeve top with the fleece sleepsack), and a dark room (had to nix the nightlight). Also, it helped when I let him settle himself upon nightwaking, rather than rushing in at every sound.
Hope some of this helps. Enjoy!
Cathleen
Mom to DS 8, DD 5 and a Greyhound Princess