RE: Breastfeeding frustrations...
Thanks for all the advice and support! Things are a little better already. I did put my foot down about the pacifier - it's not that I think it's an evil thing or anything like that, but until we've got the breastfeeding well-established, I feel like pacifiers and bottles are a big mistake. I'm glad to hear that nearly a pound in a week is not a bad thing. It seemed to fit with those silly growth charts, anyway, so I'm not sure what the big deal was with the pediatrician. I think when I told him that sometimes she wants to nurse every hour and a half he envisioned that every time she cries I pick her up and nurse her, which is not the case...
The engorgement is also lessening a bit, the crack seems to be healing, and we nursed on that side for just a few minutes earlier and although it hurt it wasn't as excruciating as I'd anticipated, so maybe that will get better soon too. :) I'm hoping tonight will be significantly better than last night, especially since no pacifier meant that Carolyn was awake for a lot more of the day today than she was yesterday - maybe the in-between feeding times will be sleepy times tonight! (She'll do a good 5 hour stretch at night, but she has to be in our bed with Daddy's pinky finger plugged in to get her to actually sleep after nursing.)
Actually, the biggest confidence booster I had today was the baby herself - nobody could get her to calm down at one point except me! All I had to do was snuggle her and she was perfectly content. She wasn't hungry or wet or tired, she just wanted to be held by me. Have I mentioned what a smart baby I have? ;)
I'll update tomorrow to let you all know how things go. It was really only a moment of weakness when I fantasized about giving up and giving her bottles. There have been enough good moments of nursing already that I immediately realized what a loss it would be to stop now, when we've barely begun.
Sarah :)
Mommy to:
Carolyn, 10/04
Anna, 7/08
Matthew, 8/13