...or into it. I'm so torn.
It's taking me an hour to empty, and I pump 3-4 times a day. I'm constantly battling supply (mostly b/c I followed the advice of a VERY BAD LC. I had oversupply before that!) and I have virtually nothing during 4 days each month. I've seriously depleted the freezer supply I'd hoped would take us past the one-year mark, and if I don't keep my supply up, I'll have no choice but to start supplementing, at least.
But I'm drinking water, eating oatmeal, taking fenugreek, and pumping at least 4 times a day, and so far, no formula since we arrived home from the hospital. I really wanted to make it to one year...then 9 months...and now I'm thinking that maybe it's just too much. Will my life feel any less chaotic if I don't have to pump? Will I be more relaxed if I'm not always counting the hours since my last pump? Will I be happier if I can stop muttering the sentence, "I can't; I have to pump soon...?"
Or will I be depressed every time I make her a bottle of formula? Will I be anxiously searching for signs of bad reactions, stuffy noses, ear infections, under the admittedly-irrational belief that I'm no longer "protecting" her the way I had been? Will I hate myself for doing less for her than I could have?
I won't use anything but organic formula, which is ridiculously expensive and would require some serious belt-tightening. I feel like this is silly - I've got the milk, and I've done it this long. It's only 5 more months; I'm more than halfway there.
But I'm so, so tired. And I'm on my a$$ all the time (well, it feels like that,) which isn't helping my mood or my weight. And because I can't drink enough coffee to keep me awake, I'm eating a lot of sugar, which is bad bad bad.
I've tried cutting down, but I lose too much milk.
Dd is on solids once a day and I don't want to shortchange her milk by giving her more solids just to make it easier on me.
Please share your experiences, thoughts, advice, opinions...anything will be appreciated.
Now I'm gonna get off this pump and go to bed. :)
Jude