This story is so upsetting! I cannot imagine how you can concentrate on your job when you cannot trust that your child is being fed!!
My daughter is in daycare. We left our first daycare after 6 weeks and in hindsight, I think we stuck it out too long. I just felt that we had no other options after we chose the "best" place in our town for her. You have to trust your gut...good luck with your decision.
Let us know what happens!!
Chris