Well ladies, I got a response from Joy this morning. I think if you were hoping for cuter baby hair options you will be pleased. I know I am. These were going to be posted March 13th. So here is a sneak peek. My personal winner is:
Short Bouclez Loop 2
http://www.windsorpeak.com/dc/user_files/22449.jpg
also sweet the Short Mohair Loop
http://www.windsorpeak.com/dc/user_files/22450.jpg
and the very adorable but not right for my DD, the Mohair Baby Pigtails
http://www.windsorpeak.com/dc/user_files/22451.jpg
Joy said that if you want one of these options to write the name of the style in the special instructions box if it isn't on the site yet.
My other concern with the baby companion was it's ability to sit, and she said it will sit "assisted" as in a highchair or stroller. I think at DD's age that will be sufficent. When she gets to be 4 or 5 and is more ready I'll probably make her the honey or button doll.
So my offical (I think) decision is the 14" baby companion with the bouclez loop 2 hair, the darling three piece knit baby set, and probably a moses basket. I'm still not sure about the Moses basket. It is really cute and will only be $12, so I'm not sure I can find the same cuteness for less. Although I really like the idea of an unfinished wooden cradle finished to match DD's bed. I think I'll be sleeping better now. :)
Anyhow, I'm really impressed with Joy. I'm glad we are doing this through her. I hope this helps.
ETA Oh yeah, this is what she says about shoulder length hair for the little ones: "Shoulder length is something to consider when she is at least 3-4 years old as she will only be annoyed by all the yarn and it will not wear well with one so young. The yarns that have the cut ends shed." I really liked the shoulder length hair too, but the shedding bit convinced me. Her next doll will have it.