How do I get EBF twins on a schedule?
Update: Woohoo! I did it! Two months later, i finally have the twins on a sleeping/eating schedule. And I"m posting here to help anyone else who may want to try this.
I've noticed lately that Greenbean will fall asleep on his back. So I started to think that maybe his reflux issues-or whatever the issue was- has healed. I've also been noticing in the past 2 weeks some consistency to their needs. They always seem to wake around 6am and fall asleep around 8pm. Other things seemed to happen at the same times too. So, for the past week, I wrote down every time they ate, got fussy, how long it took for them to fall asleep, how long they slept, etc. I did that for each twin. Pretty much didn't leave the house that week and just wrote everything down. Then for each twin I counted how many times they ate each day, how many hours they napped, approximately what times of the day they napped if there was any consistency to that, and I did an average for each baby. I found that they both nursed about 5 or 6 times per day and they averaged about 6 hours of naps per day (which would be the healthy amount of sleep needed by a 4 months old). They seemed to like to be awake for a couple of hours before bedtime and they seemed to like a long morning nap. Also, they sometimes they went as long as 4 hours between nursing sessions so I think as long as they get in enough feedins, I could stretch it to 3 hours. So working with all this information, I came up with a schedule. I feed them every three hours starting at 6am and ending at 8:30pm. They get playtime after each feeding and then I figured out consistent naps after each play time that space out 6 hours of sleep throughout the day. So far, it is working great. The schedule is absolutely flexible, I mean, I'm not going to make them starve if they need to eat sooner, but this has been WONDERFUL. I am able to plan things more easily. For example, during their naptime today, I took my older 2 outside to enjoy the 60 degree weather for 2 hours. I had the baby monitor outside with us and not a peep was heard. WONDERFUL. And the babies have cried less since I started this, I swear. They haven't even fussed before sleeptime whiich is unheard of. They ALWAYS fuss before sleeptime. This is such a relief.
Just had to share my happiness!
I got both my first 2 babies on a feeding/sleeping schedule after three months (using the Ezzo "Babywise" method). But I"m not sure how to do this with the twins. They are ebf every 2 or 3 hours and Greenbean has reflux. I'd like to know if someone has experience getting breast fed twins on a regular schedule? I'm really lost on how to do this, but I"m sure it's possible. I did it with my first 2 singleton babies. I know that NICU twins are all on schedules, even the ones eating only breast milk. So, how do I do it?
any help is greatly appreciated.
Last edited by gatorsmom; 04-04-2008 at 09:22 PM.
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