UPDATE:
I just wanted to say Thank You for all the support and suggestions. Things are better. DD is eating food! We have been spoon feeding Earth's Best. I know it is baby food from a jar, but right now this is working for us. After some trial and error, we found Prunes & Oatmeal and the Rice & Lentels are her faves, so she gets at least one jar of those each every day. I switched from Cheerios to Trader Joe Os, per egoldber's advice to find something more with more nutitional punch. These are protien fortified, so that seems better. We are continually looking for things to trow into the mix. I think she will continue to make progress and as she gets more dexterity and teeth, we will introduce more rough/ textured foods that require more chewing that she can self feed. Right now, I am confident that a piece of toast would just end up on the floor, but maybe I will try it later today. She took to whole milk really well. I am thinking of keeping a bottle of formula in there for the DHA & ARA. Anyway, I bookmarked this thread, so a big THANK YOU to all of you wonderful moms for your advice
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She will pick up cheerios and herself those, but she won't try anything else. Pasta, peas, beans, cheese, I have tried these and other things too in little bits. She ate banana from my hand once. But now it is like she in on a food strike. I took her to the doctor this week and she has actually lost weight since March. The ped told me to stop feeding her formula (she was exclusively FF, no BF) and switch her to whole milk. That transition has happened, and she takes the milk fine. She was on Similac, which is milk-based, so I thought it would be fine on whole milk.
Basically, I am trying to switch her from 5 6oz bottles of Similac plus random cheerios and baby food thrown in, to 3 4oz bottles of whole milk and a lot more food. Well, she will take the milk, but is not so interested in more food.
Unfortunately, since the doctor's appointment, she and I have gotten into a battle of wills with my trying to get her to eat more and now she will not let me or DH feed her anything. Today, I put macaroni, beans, peas, and cheese on her tray. She just mashed it into the tray and pushed it around and then started screaming until I gave her, yup, you guessed it, CHEERIOS!
Any ideas?