Are you in public or private school? A public school should have a special ed. dept. and the teacher should know how to make a referral. Private schools are more hit and miss. When I was working in this field, I had the best luck working with Educational Psychologists. There were also "Learning Specialists" & "Educational Consultants" that were well trained in this area. Ask around. There are definitely some professionals in this area that are better than others.
Dyslexia isn't as scary as it sounds either. There are some incredibly successful, well known people that have been diagnosed as dyslexic.
If I remember right, the IDA (International Dyslexia Association) was a good resource:
http://www.interdys.org/