Ok, so I decided to go with this bed:
Young America-Stanley-Isabella
http://www.allchildrensfurniture.com...5-YAS8700.html
and the matching nightstand:
http://www.greatpricedfurniture.com/products/10538.html
but I like this dresser (without the mirror) better:
http://www.greatpricedfurniture.com/.../51235197.html
Does that look ok? TIA from a decoration-challenged mom!!