DH and I are devout Catholic and I attended catholic schools all the way through college so I guess I"m not exactly objective, LOL. My parents sent my brother to a public school because they they didn't like a particular teacher and had a disagreement with the school board about it. He did well at public school.
To answer some of your questions from my perspective, YES, it was a huge relief wearing a uniform and not having to compete with clothes everyday. Of course there were still girls wearing the most expensive shoes, but one thing we all agreed on collectively at the time is we hated the uniform! LOL. But now I look back and am thankful for it. There were some friends at the time who received scholarships to attend our high school and probably would have been treated differently because of their clothes if they'd had to compete in that department.
As for the religious aspect of it, I was taught about Christ, the history of the Catholic church, the theory of creation that the bible teaches as well as Darwin's theory. I'm still close to many of my friends from elementary as well as high school. Many, many of us have taken different paths. Some are no longer Catholic, some are practicing a different Christian denomination, some are devout like me. I would say that none of us have felt indoctrinated or taught subjects differently than children of non-Catholic schools. I felt like I was given facts and dates and left to decide on my own. I have met people since I graduated who attended schools of different religious denominations who I couldn't say this of. I guess my point is that of all the religious schools your children could attend, I feel that Catholic schools are the least likely to incorporated their beliefs into subjects other than theology. Others may argue having had a different experience. But even with us being Catholic, i would NOT want my children to be taught incorrect or questionable material whose purpose is to convert them to our religion. As far as I'm concerned, they need to be taught the most modern, factual information as possible with the purpose of preparing them for any college they are interested in attending. The theological portion is a different topic all it's own.
It looks like I"m going to have to cut this short, but if you are really interested, you may want to speak to someone at the school you are interested in and find out what percentage of students are actually Catholic attending there. I know that at the Catholic high school we'd like to send our children to the percentage of students who consider themselves Catholic is only 40%.
gotta go. hth!
ETA: Now that DH got the boys out of the house I reread my post. It sounds kind of presumptuous about all religious-based schools and frankly not very well worded. I guess my point is that since I graduated from school I've discussed this same topic with a lot with many people of different backgrounds and faiths. I've never heard it said that Catholic school curriculums are created in any way to sway someone to the Catholic faith. I have heard that said about schools of other denominations. I guess I"m defending Catholic schools (not from any posters here) but I honestly wouldn't have posted if I didn't feel this were true. But of course, every school is different and should be considered on its own merits.
Last edited by gatorsmom; 10-26-2008 at 12:51 PM.
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