Please help! DD has responded pretty well to Ferber method at nighttime, but it is NOT working during the day! She has not slept more than 10 minutes and she usually screams for almost a full 1/2 hour before that. I really don't want to continue to take her out after 10 minutes (like the book suggests, since the 1/2 hour window is therefore over), because I know she's not getting enough sleep!
Her nighttime sleep is from about 8 or 8:30 to 6:30 or 7am. We are trying to put her down for her first nap around 9:20.
I just don't know what to do! Should I just pick her up and try to make her play (we have been doing that and she is ridiculously cranky!) or continue the progressive waiting to see if she will go back to sleep?
This is absolutely awful. I will bear listening to her cry if it is what is best for her but I am just beginning to think I'm doing something wrong! Any input would be greatly appreciated.