Originally Posted by
Gena
This is true when both spouses are non-Catholic. Catholics are obligated to either marry in the Catholic Church OR have the marriage convalidated ("blessed") by a priest OR get a dispensation from these rules. The PP indicated that her husband is Catholic, therefore these rules apply to their marriage.
Rlu - if you do later decide to have your marriage convalidated by the Catholic Church, it is often a simple procedure, although some parishes may require a marriage prep class or counseling session. Some couples like to treat this event as a "second wedding" with all that entails. Other couples just do a small, private ceremony with a few family members. Your son's baptism is recognized by the Catholic Church.
Thanks. We just celebrated 13 years and I and DH don't really see any reason to have our marriage convalidated (thanks for the correct wording). We considered it at the time of marriage for his parents' sake, but I've no desire to convert and MIL doesn't seem to hold that or the lack of convalidation against us (she introduces me as his wife, seems to genuinely like me, etc.) DH certainly considers us married, so it's a non-issue for us, but I appreciate your comments.
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