OP here. I'm sure that post was well-meaning, but it did seem a bit extreme, IMO! By the way, my original post is almost 2 months old, and I'm glad to report, not an issue anymore! I actually posted an update stating that DD was on a better schedule and that the only issue was that she was waking 2x a night to eat. Well, thankfully that has been reduced to 1x a night- completely on her own. I appreciate the information, and as KrisM said, I'm sure it applies to some children. However, I dont think its the reason for every child who is waking during the night!!