DD is a very imaginative and social. I play with her as much as I can handle, but it is certainly not my favorite activity. Her brother is very demanding and takes up most of my time. I have looked at many MDO and preschool programs locally and was turned off by the emphasis on academics. I just want her to have fun and be creative during her day. She is only 3.5yo. Waldorf seemed a logical choice for this reason. My only concern is that we are relatively mainstream (ie. we have commercial toys, watch some TV, movies, Amaya's favorite "toy" is the Iphone, etc). and I wonder about whether this may confuse dd. I did a search on mdc for "mainstream" and "Waldorf" and I found a thread about a family whose daughter was laughed at and bullied b/c of her mainstream toys at the visitor morning she attended. Apparently the director and the other parents witnessed the children's behavior and did not get involved. Coincidentally, this happened at the same school where I was planning to enroll dd. I am going to the visitor tomorrow and now I'm terrified. I was not planning to take dd with me, but now I wonder whether I should. Amaya's ears are pierced.... Will they harrass her for that? Any tips on questions I should ask the director in light of this issue or otherwise? ETA: If I am breaking forum rules by referencing the thread on mdc, please let me know and I will find a way to rephrase. Thx.