A June, 2009 DOM is a good one, esp. for $149! We got our Evenflo seat on clearance from Albee Baby in 2006 and when it arrived at our doorstep it was litterally a month (if that) old. The height limits for the seat are going to me less than 1" from the top of the shell or her ears above the top of the shell. This is standard for all seats, I believe.
Also FWIW I would just buy another RA 50 for DH's car if you are happy for it. I wouldn't spend the extra money on the Marathon just for the 15lbs in extra weight as she'll most likely outgrow it by height first. Both the RA 50 and the Marathon rear face until 35lbs. DD was an odd duck and spent 18 mos. (from a year until 2/1/2) complaining about her Marathon. I ended up really not liking the seat much and would not buy another for #2 esp. since the RA 50 is out and is almost the same exact seat.