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I currently freelance (i.e. WAHD) and have partnered up with a design agency that gives me work. I live in Florida, the agency is up North. Although things have slowed down and I haven’t worked in a few weeks.
I have a part-time job doing manual labor to get some sort of income during slow times. Once things pick up again with the agency, I’ll go back to working 40-50 hrs a week. I think your focus right now should be providing for your family. You mentioned in a reply your main mission is to save, save, save. Well, work, work, work. I know its hard going from a great high income job to manual labor/career change, but men & women all over America have and are doing it.
I belong to an illustration collective. We get together once a month (or two) depending on everyone’s schedule. A lot of the illustrators in the group are also dads with kids that range from new borns to 13yr olds. I would say once a month would be ok, if your wife is ok with it. This in addition to your networking, you need to prioritize which is more effective toward getting you back into your workforce.
As a freelancer, I need to go out and network. The more people I meet, the better chances I have of increasing my workload. I want to get to a point where I don’t have to go too long without work.
The illustration group is more of a creative recharge, although we do end up working on projects together. I work on said projects when I have time during the day, or after my wife and daughter are asleep (late nights). Are these projects providing any income? Or is this more of an 'outlet'? I understand you want to keep your creative juices going, but honestly, how much time are you committing to this?
My wife hardly goes out, although she wishes she had more girls night out, but when the opportunity arises she chooses to stay home. I would love for her to go out and enjoy herself because the few times she does, it makes her happy. I would find work that provides income so she doesn't have to worry about $$ on girls night out. That may be the reason she chooses to stay home.
I’m home a lot. I like being home, but I also like blowing the stink off. My wife and I do a lot together with our daughter. She works at Disney, so we have free reign of all the parks. Plus with connections to SeaWorld and Universal, we visit those parks as well.
I do the cooking; wash dishes, do laundry; clean litter box, bathrooms, and handy work around the house. Plus I’ll be doing more since my wife is pregnant. I don't know how much you are actually working, but I think with your wife working full time, pregnant, exhausted, maybe you should start doing more asap.
My questions are as follows:
1) Is it acceptable for me to go out and network a couple times a month? Are you just meeting with the same people every time? Do these meetings happen at night? Could you work more during the day and network in the evenings? Has this networking been very productive?
2) Is it acceptable for me to meet up with the illustration group once every month or two?
3) Is it acceptable for me to go to a convention once a year or so? I think this would be most acceptable, but least obtainable, they are expensive. I think if you took what work you could get now and saved for a convention it would be a much better networking opportunity that local networking.
I appreciate all honest answers.