Mods--you can move to the sleep forum, but I know more traffic is here.
DS is 5. He needs at least 1- 1.5 hours more sleep than DD. Right now DD goes to bed at 8:30 and wakes up at 6:30 or 7. If I put her to bed earlier she is up in the middle of the night for several hours or wakes up at 4 am for the day (I mean if I put her to bed at 8 pm or earlier). She no longer naps either. DS, OTOH, refuses to nap and he could use it. He really needs to go to bed between 7:30 and 8 pm. Right now he goes to bed between 8:30 and 9 pm and wakes up by himself sometimes around 6:30--usually closer to 7. Lately he has been sleeping until 7:30. That is the absolute latest I can let him sleep if we want to make it to preschool on time. It would be so much better if DS could be in bed by 8 and DD by 8:30, but so far DS has been resistant. How do I handle getting DS to bed before DD (He normally pitches a fit b/c he feels that DD get to "stay up" later than him)?