Thanks again all. I appreciate unbiased feedback, all good points. When I spoke to my director and asked the actual reasoning for me to appear, she said it was in case they would need my expertise. I'd rather not make all these arrangements and leave my newborn just "in case" and told her so (politely and professionally). If it's just an expertise of a school psychologist that they need, they have quite a few of those to go around. Also if I remember correctly (this is not my case so I don't remember all the details) the parents are asking for a independent reading evaluation, not a new psychological. We decided that she'd speak to the district's attorney and let me know ASAP. I really hope I can get away with a deposition. I'd hate to leave my son just to go sit in a courtroom for a day for a possible few minutes worth of testimony.
And to the poster who said she participated as needed during her leave, I do as well. A coworker frequently calls me with questions about my caseload and I, of course, give her whatever info she needs. I feel that this situation is different.
Anna, mommy to DD 11/06 and DS 3/10