My DH travels a bit for work and when he is away he frequently goes to clubs by himself. He is 32 and he is definitely the out-going party type. We have had discussions about this and he tells me that he goes for the environment. He likes to have a couple drinks, listen to music, talk to people (men and women). He swears it's not to pick-up on women, he loves me etc. etc. For some reason I do believe him mainly because I know he just likes to be with people. He is not the type to sit in his hotel room.
With that said, I am insecure. It bothers me that he is at a club because I feel like the only reason guys go there is to pick up on other woman. I don't really think he would tell me he was going if it was to cheat, he just wouldn't tell me. I know I could tell him that he has to stop going but I think he would resent that. Besides, I knew when I married him that he was the type that was always going to be out-going.
Outside of this issue, he is a loving and responsible husband and father. He does go out with the "guys" on occasion, but it's not excessive.
Would this bother you? How would you deal with it?