I used to feel like this also. Then I took a cooking class with the chef at a local restaurant. It was a great experience and I learned so much. I also got way more brave in the kitchen because I felt like I could make at least 1 good thing! Now I cook a lot more and am willing to try more things even if I know that I will occasionally totally bomb out. It is a lot less than it used to be. Maybe a class would help?